Rejection makes you feel terrible but, what I say is that they reject me because they feel threatened by me in someway and that is their easy way out making you feel rejected. ~ Tommie Gonzalez
May be one is not destining to be with that person who rejected because you must be a gem which shine to bring in the relationship. God will create the right person for you and take it as a lesson. ~ Luz Ortiz
No one is better then another because everyone is unique. With his/her own qualities/skills and character. ~ Joop Stroes
From day1 of my job i was rejectef by 2 of my officemates whom are higher rank from me upto now that i sometimes humble myself offering food and goodthings but they never accepted everything that comes from me. We meet 5 days a week avoiding each other for 4 yrs. How i wish to transfet to other department or other job. I just pray constantly for this and lift up everything to the plan of our Great Planner of our lives.
We are on the same boat…i am almost a year now with a new job with people with schemes to make newcomers life difficult and leaves instantly…its good that i have a higher rank than all of them and that owners favors me…but on a daily basis they will show rejections and insubordinations to the point of rage….but yes as one friend told me….these people were so envious that i might have what they can not have….or want to have for years so they are determined to get you if they can not have what they want…at least that no one else should savor the perks and priviles of that position..and let them be so negative for the rest of the time that i have that position. Prayers do get us up in the morning and walk us through the day and each single day…we should fight back professionally with our excellent work and good deeds and words…kill everybody with grace and kindness and pray for God;s support and guidance.
my situation is different then the comments above, but rejection hurts in any form. When I met my husband of 9 years, I thought he was my true love, when we met, we had so much fun things to do in common, laughed,etc, went everywhere together, etc, he was so loving and attentive. We were married, and the night mare began!
His adoring, loving, kindness, doing things with me, all stopped!!!! And as the years past….it got worse. He acted and wanted to be treated like he was nothing more than a house guest. He wouldn’t help with our house finance, demanded I pay everything and he kept his money to himself. This caused arguments that he down right refused to help. He wouldn’t do anything with me, and he would go on six week vacation with his friends he new in Oregon without me. Never took me anywhere. I felt so horrible and alone and unloved, if I asked what was wrong he would explode in a rage I had not seem, but terrorized me. I was so hurt. He kept on rejecting me…with everything that married couples do normally. We developed no friends together, no social connections, he kept me isolated from my friends. If I tried to ask why…he would get very ugly with name calling, put downs etc. he blocked me from his computer and off of face book, I was upset about this further rejection and he didn’t give a damn. Recently I found out he had secret profiles, dating sites, and he didn’t put me down as his wife for his social security, he put single. I broke into tears, that’s was the last straw….all he did without a word was walked out….I haven’t seen or heard from him since. He claimed he has always had trouble with his emotions! Then I found out there are tons of lies he has told me, one big one is he had been married four times before. I can even define the level of rejection I feel. I am a gentle, loving, kind, Christian women, I don’t hurt anyone. I don’t understand what happened.
Please, don’t feel rejected by him. It isn’t you who caused all this, he did! There’s obviously something wrong with him cause he suddenly changed and treated you like dirt. Maybe you’ll never know what happened. Talk about everything with one or two good friends, as often as you need. You couldn’t see this coming before the wedding! You’re not to blame. He seems to be a pathological liar and that will never change. Maybe that’s the most important thing you need to know. It has NOTHING to do with you. He lies to everybody. People like him aren’t capable of living an honest life. One day you’ll be grateful your marriage didn’t last longer, cause it would’ve put you down only more. Take good care of yourself Cheryl!