So often people struggle with the idea of forgiving others as they think that they will be saying it was alright to do what they did, but it’s not about the other person, it’s about healing your own pain and laying down the crippling anger and resentment that you have been carrying for so long. It festers – it makes you sick – lay it down for your own sake. ~ Joy Turner
It is such freedom when you do and stop being g a victim.There is no time frame for healing from pain from others deeply hurting you. It is different for each and every individual person. It can be difficult to heal in your own place time when people you love in your life are not supportive or expect you to just “GET OVER IT ” right away. It’s the worse thing they can say or make you feel. ~ Seed Sower
The more often you forgive, the easier it becomes. When you learn that it is for YOU and not them, you will have clarity!