Forgiveness is more about ourselves and being free from the energetic hold. As we hold onto grudges, we are held hostage to our past. ~ Rebekah Harkness
With some people, fighting is not the solution. You can never win with them. Hurting and fighting is in their nature and they do not suffer by doing it, so once again, you get hurt. With certain people, the one and only way is to stay away from them and you have peace. You don’t need to fight or forgive, just stay away and peace will surround you by time goes by. ~ Alby Menicatti
It does take a while for the process of forgiving to take place, but it is worth it. Just don’t blame yourself for all the time it takes you. Put your well being first and let things unfold at your own pace and more from the heart than from the head.