The lesson is: Try not to repeat the same mistakes that ended your marriage so that your next marriage won’t end.
I learned to forgive myself and others, with our unaware robotic repeated behavior and now I’m in a more loving, consciously awake and aware relationship with myself and I attract others similar. (like attracts like) ~ Sigh Willy
God sends us around the same mountain again and again until we get it right and sometimes, we even get a refresher course.